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Celebrating The Enduring Love Of A Mother

Photo: Maria

There’s no love greater than a mother’s love – and little a mother won’t do to help her child thrive. It’s a love that’s fierce yet tender, strong yet compassionate – a steady force that shapes lives in ways both big and small. This Mother’s Day, we pay tribute to mothers who not only nurture, but transform – whose love moves mountains and redefines what it means to care. 

Maria’s journey is a poignant reminder of this kind of love. Now in her 50s, Maria made the life-changing decision to leave behind a decade-long career in the optical industry to embark on a new path in education – and eventually pursue a Master of Special and Inclusive Education. Her inspiration? To become a full-time caregiver for her son, who was born with Down syndrome. 

Raising A Differently-Abled Child

Maria vividly recalls the whirlwind of her son’s early days. “In the hospital, the doctors suspected something during the routine checks after birth, and it all moved so fast,” she shared “by the time the blood test confirmed it was Down syndrome, we were on a full schedule of medical appointments.” Alongside the emotional weight of the diagnosis, Maria and her husband were faced with a way of uncertainty. “We were worried about his long-term health, how he would learn and grow, and how he could be independent and self-sufficient.”  

Photo: Maria

Some of these concerns were quickly confirmed: Maria’s son was born with a congenital defect that required urgent surgical intervention, and has since been resolved. Since then, Maria has taken the lead in managing his healthcare, ensuring he receives periodic check-ups. Even when the family relocates overseas, she goes to great lengths to rebuild his entire medical and educational support systems from scratch – finding the right medical specialists, speech and occupational therapists, and adapting care routines to the new environment.  

Shedding light on the power of support systems, Maria also credits much of their progress to the collaborative efforts of those around her family. “We’ve been fortunate,” she says. “Through the courses I’ve taken in teaching and education, I’ve been able to reinforce his learning outside of the classroom, helping him progress in his own way. Today he is fluent in both English and mother tongue languages, and excels in sports and music.” 

Validating Her Experience With Knowledge

As the years passed, Maria took it upon herself to support her son’s learning beyond the classroom, equipping him with the skills needed to thrive. But as he approached adulthood, she recognised a new set of challenges – more than just academic, but deeply practical. “We knew he would need a different kind of support to navigate independence,” she explained. “That’s when I realised I needed to grow alongside him.” Her search led her to the Master of Special and Inclusive Education at Newcastle Australia IHE – a program that not only validated her lived experience but gave her the professional strategies to better support her son’s journey to adulthood. 

Maria’s journey as a mother has been filled with hard-won lessons, yet she was eager to deepen her understanding. Through the program, Maria gained practical knowledge – from setting SMART goals to understanding how the environment impacts behaviour. But perhaps more importantly, it gave her a space to reflect, share, and learn from others. “I am able to add my perspectives as a parent in class discussions. I am not just learning; I think I am also contributing.” 

 

Class visit at the Enabling Village March 2025 with Dr Jarina Peer, Program Coordinator of Master of Special and Inclusive Education. (Photo: Maria)

When asked about how the MSIE program might have made things easier, Maria was candid in her reply. “The challenges don’t necessarily get easier,” she shares, “but I now feel more empowered to face them. I’m better equipped with tools and strategies that allow me to teach my son important life skills – ones that foster independence and confidence.”

Building A Community That Evolves and Thrives

Maria’s experience has inspired her to help others on a similar journey. Today, she volunteers at the Down Syndrome Association (DSA) Thrift Shop in Singapore, working alongside adult learners with Down syndrome to develop essential workplace skills.

“I call it my happy place,” she smiled. “It’s where I see real change happen – not just for the learners, but for myself too. We grow together.” At the Thrift Shop, she supports DSA trainers by helping adult learners practise customer service, teamwork, and store display management. It’s practical, hands-on learning – the kind that empowers them to take steps toward independent living.

 

At the Down Syndrome Association (DSA) Thrift Shop at 17A Telok Blangah Crescent. (Photo: Maria)

And her journey isn’t stopping here. Maria is passionate about filling the gap in support for teenagers and young adults with special needs, a stage she believes deserves equal attention. “There’s a lot of help for early childhood, but once they grow older, many families are left wondering what’s next. I want to be part of that ‘next’ – to help other parents prepare our children towards independence or semi-independence in adulthood, with dignity, patience, and the right support.”

 

Going From Strength To Strength

Looking back, Maria reflects not only on the hurdles, but also the moments of unexpected joy. One memory stands out: taking part in her very first Buddy Walk with her son during World Down Syndrome Day. “There, we met a young man in his twenties with Down syndrome who shared his journey. It really moved us. It reminded us of the importance of connecting with others, of advocating and supporting families through awareness and education. That day empowered us.”

Maria’s story is one of strength, humility, and endless love. We extend our heartfelt appreciation to mothers like Maria – whose love knows no limits, whose strength often goes unseen, and whose quiet resilience lights the way for others. Their impact echoes far beyond their families, creating a world that’s more inclusive, compassionate, and full of hope.